The Mission Newsletter – May 2012

Two years ago, Will Nicklas and John Kennelly were living the American Dream. As executives at Toyota Motor Sales, USA, they earned substantial incomes that afforded their families the protection of upper-middle-class lifestyles and affluent neighborhoods far from the grit and hopeless despair of Skid Row.

“People on Skid Row weren’t even an afterthought to me. I was too busy working on getting my own slice of the pie,” John admits. “I never cared until Will and I went down there one afternoon.”

Will, who wanted to “do something meaningful in the community,” had already secured a cargo van for Union Rescue Mission, and was also involved with securing special shirts for an upcoming fundraiser for the Mission. When it came time to deliver the shirts, he invited his boss, John, to accompany him.

“Honestly, I only went because I wanted to play hooky from the office for an afternoon,” John says.

“But when I took a tour of the Mission, met some of the guys in the program, heard their stories — well, I was moved. Unless your heart is made of stone, you want to help those guys.”

Before long, Will and John were brainstorming ways they could make a bigger difference.

“Ultimately, the way home is a job. Without a job, the cycle of homelessness will never end for these guys,” Will says.

So Will and John agreed to spend time mentoring URM’s men, coaching them as they developed resumes and teaching them how to interview. More important, they persuaded UGL Services, Toyota’s facility-maintenance vendor, to come down and interview several of the men — with no obligation to hire anyone. “The problem is, most guys at the Mission believe no one cares about people like them,” Will says. But the day UGL came to interview the guys at URM, hope filled the hallways. The men who interviewed for jobs were articulate, energetic, poised, and prepared.

In the end, four men were hired that day — men who are truly grateful for the second chance they’ve been given. And UGL has four new valuable employees. Today, John and Will are already inviting more Toyota vendors to join them at URM.

“The Bible calls us to bear one another’s burdens,” Will says. “I think it’s time for us to live that out. Skid Row is the epicenter of homelessness. It’s dark and depressing. But you know what? I keep coming back because of the hope I experience there. If you want to tap into a sense of purpose and meaning, reach out to these people. Be involved in this situation. You’ll be forever surprised at what happens.”

A growing number of people on Skid Row desperately need hope and a helping hand — they need YOU. Right now, generous friends of Union Rescue Mission have offered to match every gift we receive — up to $150,000!

That means any gift you send will be doubled to provide twice as much help for hurting men and women — and remind them that someone really does care.

This extraordinary opportunity is only available until June 30. So please make a generous gift today to provide twice as much help — and receive twice the blessing!

Over the years, I’ve heard many excuses for not helping people experiencing homelessness. Some people insist Jesus said, “The poor you will always have with you, so why try?” Still others think we’re only enabling addicts and alcoholics if we offer them food and shelter.

But I think it’s time to stop making excuses and truly help our brothers and sisters experiencing homelessness.

Probably the most significant — and most difficult — way to help is to offer real friendship to struggling men and women, just like Will and John have done (see our cover story in this newsletter). They’ve eaten with them, mentored them, shared skills with them, and encouraged them. That’s what people really need.

But there are other ways to get involved. Help someone read in our learning center. Play with our kids in the gym. Serve a meal. Help raise money for Union Rescue Mission — and, of course, write a check of your own! Everyone can do something!

I know it isn’t easy. Sometimes it’s even heartbreaking and a little risky. But Jesus took a lot of risk and experienced much heartbreak to rescue humanity. I believe it’s time to follow in His footsteps.

Blessings,

Rev. Andy Bales, CEO

Over the years, I’ve heard many excuses for not helping people experiencing homelessness. Some people insist Jesus said, “The poor you will always have with you, so why try?” Still others think we’re only enabling addicts and alcoholics if we offer them food and shelter.

But I think it’s time to stop making excuses and truly help our brothers and sisters experiencing homelessness.

Probably the most significant — and most difficult — way to help is to offer real friendship to struggling men and women, just like Will and John have done (see our cover story in this newsletter). They’ve eaten with them, mentored them, shared skills with them, and encouraged them. That’s what people really need.

But there are other ways to get involved. Help someone read in our learning center. Play with our kids in the gym. Serve a meal. Help raise money for Union Rescue Mission — and, of course, write a check of your own! Everyone can do something!

I know it isn’t easy. Sometimes it’s even heartbreaking and a little risky. But Jesus took a lot of risk and experienced much heartbreak to rescue humanity. I believe it’s time to follow in His footsteps.

Blessings,

The Mission Newsletter – February 2012

“I know the dark side. I’ve seen it and lived it — I know what evil is,” says “Pops,” a 68-year-old guest at Union Rescue Mission.

Pops grew up the son of a sadistic, alcoholic father who beat him almost daily. He still carries the scars from the whip his father used. By the time he was a teenager, Pops turned his hurt and rage into a string of armed robberies and car thefts. He ended up in prison at age 19, where he quickly earned a reputation as one of its meanest men.

After his release in 1968, he started smuggling drugs. After several ruthless gun battles with rival drug smugglers on the Mexican border, they dubbed him “El Diablo” — The Devil.

By 1983, Pops was one of the most influential drug dealers on the streets of downtown Los Angeles, where he dealt addiction, misery, and death for 26 years. Yet Pops’ own heroin and alcohol addiction slowly sapped the life out of him.

“By 2009,” he says, “I knew I was dying. My legs were black, I couldn’t walk, and I’d burned out every vein on my body from the needles. One night, God spoke to me and told me to go to Union Rescue Mission. I couldn’t fight anymore, so I did.”

For two months, Pops sat by a trash can vomiting and praying God would give him the grace to make it another day.

As his body healed, the love and grace he experienced at the Mission started to heal his soul. “One day, I went to my chaplain’s office and I started weeping and I haven’t stopped since. I’ve never experienced love before. But the love I experienced here saved my life,” Pops says.

“Colossians 1:13 says it all: ‘For God has rescued me from the dominion of darkness and brought me into the kingdom of the Son He loves.’”

Today, Pops’ only desire is to return to the streets where he used to deal death to get as many men, women, and children off those streets as possible. He’s already persuaded nine men and women to get help at the Mission.

“If anyone knows these streets, I do,” he says. “I’ve been in the worst areas with the meanest people. And I’ve seen the kids. When I see those kids now, I just start crying. I want to help them. And I believe that’s what God wants me to do.”

After a lifetime of dealing in darkness, Pops now lives in the light, where you’ll find him walking every day with tears of gratitude.

Our Winter of Discontent

After a lifetime of dealing in darkness, Pops now lives in the light, where you’ll find him walking every day with tears of gratitude. For more than five years, the numbers of people living outside on the streets of Skid Row were dropping. A couple of years ago, their number had dropped to 600 — which is still tragic, but far better than the thousands of people living on these streets 10 years ago. But this winter, the unthinkable has happened. Due to the economy, more people being let out of prison, more lost jobs and lost savings, and a decline in government services, the number of people living on the sidewalks and back alleys on Skid Row has more than doubled to nearly 1,700.

This winter they face bone-chilling rain and cold, nights without sleep, weather related sicknesses, and some will even die. We must take action.

Thanks to your support, Union Rescue Mission offers an additional 140 beds to hurting men and women every cold, rainy night — and we use that opportunity to invite every one of them to come in out of the rain and change their lives permanently. Our love, care, and humanity for hurting people demands it. I wish we could do more. But thanks to you, we’re doing what we can.

Blessings,

Rev. Andy Bales

Have You Created Your 120 Fund Yet?

I hope you will join us as we celebrate our 120th birthday — and 120 years of bringing compassion, love, and hope to people on the streets of Los Angeles.

None of this work would have been possible without the support of friends like you. YOU are the Mission. That’s why we hope you will go to urm.org/120 and create your own personal fundraising page.

Your birthday gift will help feed, shelter, and restore precious souls experiencing homelessness. Thank you.

The Mission Newsletter – December 2011

Secrets and Highs

When I came to Union Rescue Mission a year ago, I had no self-respect and no dignity. I had lost everything that mattered to me. I was a broken man — with a lifelong secret.

I was just 6 years old when a teenage girl sexually molested me. When I told my parents, they didn’t believe me. The whole experience left me so traumatized, I started to stutter. And I’ve never been able to stop.

All through school, I got into fights because of my speech impediment. But when I turned 18, I discovered crystal meth — and I felt a rush of power and liberation I’d never experienced before. I didn’t care how I talked or what anyone thought of me anymore. From that first line, I was hooked.

Over the next 18 years, I got married, had three kids and held all kinds of jobs — and I lost every one of them due to my addiction.

My wife threatened to leave me many times, but I was always able to manipulate her into staying. I disappointed her time and again.

I wanted to change. I wanted to be the husband and father she believed I could be. I even went to rehab. Twice. But nothing worked. As long as I held on to my secret, I could not control my addiction.

By July 2010, I was no longer working, my wife and kids had finally left me, and I was losing my mind. One day I woke up on Skid Row, where someone literally took me by the hand and led me to Union Rescue Mission. That day I gave my life to God. In the Mission, I went into counseling, and for the first time, I started talking about my molestation, shame, and years of stuttering. I cried like never before. In time, I forgave the girl who did that to me and forgave everyone who never believed me. And I forgave myself.

Today, I have been sober for more than a year. God has given me back my dignity, self-respect, and even my wife and family. I no longer live in shame — even my stuttering has decreased.

As I head into 2012, I am a new creation in Christ. And my New Year’s wish? I’m going to college to learn how to help at-risk youths deal with their struggles and addictions. But mostly, I just want to stay clean and be the best husband and dad I can be — for the first time in my life

Watch a powerful testimony of Jose’s life Transformation here.

Help End 2011 Strong

Many of our Skid Row neighbors have little hope that their lives will be different in the coming year. In our present economy, how can they hope for something better to come?

Yet throughout our Mission in downtown Los Angeles, and among our families at Hope Gardens — hurting men, women, and children are gaining the skills, courage, and strength they need to hope again. That’s what your gifts mean — hope, as a strong foundation to start their lives over again. Thank you!

Your gift will provide shelter, warm clothes, hot meals — and hope for the New Year.

So I urge you, please send the most generous gift you can today. Thank you!

Click here to help us finish 2011 strong!

Since California’s economy tanked in 2008, the number of people seeking help at Union Rescue Mission has swelled to epic proportions, while our income has fallen to frightening levels. And economic experts predict 2012 will only be worse.

For three-and-a-half years, we tried to meet the needs of everyone experiencing homelessness in Los Angeles and it almost took us under. It’s painful to admit we can’t help everyone. But, we simply don’t have the resources.

That’s why, as we head into 2012, we are determined to focus only on what we do best — helping people who truly want to change their lives through the power of Jesus Christ, by helping folks who want to heal past wounds, get sober, find jobs, and re-enter society healthy and whole.

We won’t save everyone. But we know that hundreds of folks who come through our doors every year will live exceedingly better lives than when they first arrived. I believe that when we do our best, and our guests do their best, God performs a miracle. I expect to see a lot of miracles in 2012.

Blessings,

Rev. Andy Bales, CEO, Union Rescue Mission

The Mission Newsletter – September 2011

Called to Cook

 

Thanks to generous people like you, men like Larry will discover God’s perfect recipe for a transformed life this Thanksgiving season.

They say everyone has a spiritual gift. Mine is cooking — though I didn’t know it until recently. For more than 50 years, the only things I ever “cooked up” were drugs, alcohol, and a wrecked life.

The child of an alcoholic, suicidal mother, I grew up rebellious and angry at the world. I started drinking and using drugs myself at 15. I also carried a knife and gun wherever I went, and I never hesitated to use them. Thankfully, I never killed anyone.

I refused to let anyone tell me what to do. Not even my wife. But I never expected her to leave me. When she walked out in 1999, it devastated me so bad I gave up on life, and for six years I lived on the streets of Pasadena.

Then I met Andy Bales.

Andy was ministering out of Lake Avenue Congregational Church at that time. I’d never met anyone who cared for me like he did. He never gave up on me. One day he said, “Larry, you’re a good man.” No one had ever said that to me. Then he asked, “Are you ready to change your life?”

I was ready. Andy introduced me to Jesus and gave me my first job as a cook. And later, when he started working as CEO of Union Rescue Mission, he invited me to start cooking here, as well.

Today I’m the head chef at the Mission, and I’m responsible for serving 3,500 meals every day to all the men, women, and children who seek our help. This November will mark my sixth time preparing a Thanksgiving feast at Union Rescue Mission for nearly 4,500 at one time! And no one is more grateful than me.

I’ve never been to cooking school. No one ever taught me how to cook. But God has given me a gift for it. And I’m never alone when I do it. It sounds funny, but when I’m cooking, the Holy Spirit shows me exactly what I need to do — and it works.

But as special as cooking here at the Mission is to me, what matters more are the men who work with me. Most of these men wrecked their lives just like me. But not only has God given me the privilege of training them to cook, I also get to share my own experience with them and show them how good God is and how to keep Him in their lives. Cooking great meals, helping men discover the Lord’s recipe for a great life — these mean the world to me. God, the Master Chef, is truly good.

Spare Change for a Special Thanksgiving

 

Union Rescue Mission will serve more than 80,000 meals this Thanksgiving season, and your spare change will make a huge difference. Just go online to download a special Savings Jar label at urm.org/savingsjarlabels.  Then attach the label to the biggest container you can find and collect change daily. Then send a check for that total amount to Union Rescue Mission!

 
 

Serving Up New Life

I first met Chef Larry at a small ministry I once ran in Pasadena called Villa 500. I could tell immediately he was giving up on life. And I couldn’t let him.

He started helping me cook meals, and we became instant buddies. As I got to know him, I discovered a kind, gentle, caring soul with a lot to give back. So when I came to Union Rescue Mission, I invited him to work in our kitchen. Today, he not only cooks our meals, he shares his life with other guys and gives them hope that they can make it too.

This Thanksgiving will mark our sixth together, deep-frying almost 500 turkeys all night long to serve nearly 4,500 precious guests seeking a holiday meal.

At Union Rescue Mission, when someone asks for our help, no matter how hurt or damaged they are, we see the possibilities in them. We offer them hope and give them every opportunity to succeed. You never know when you’ll find another Chef Larry.

Blessings,

Andy Bales, CEO

The Mission Newsletter – July 2011

 

Meet an ex-cop who traded his gun for a sword.

Men like Rodney Tanaka turn your gifts into the care and love that transforms lives at Union Rescue Mission.

For 31 years, Rodney Tanaka policed the streets of Gardena, where every day he witnessed “the worst of the worst” — kids joining gangs, innocent children getting hurt, overdoses, stabbings, shootings, and the grieving mothers, fathers, and families the victims leave behind. His goal was to retire as Captain of the police force, but God had other plans. Five years ago, Tanaka left the police force and joined Union Rescue Mission as a chaplain, where he now ministers to hurting men like those he left on the streets of Gardena.

Being a policeman, I experienced a lot of things that God used to prepare me for coming to Union Rescue Mission. Most of the guys I minister to now have the same issues as the men I dealt with as a police officer. The only difference between what I do now and what I did as a policeman is that I’ve traded my gun for a sword — which is my Bible.

I love these men. Maybe that’s because when I was growing up, I drank, did drugs, and ran with the wrong crowd. I could easily have ended up on Skid Row. But God showed me compassion through many caring people and saved my life. And I want to show that same compassion to the men here.

And it’s not hard to care for these men when you know where they come from. These men grew up with parents struggling with addictions and mental issues. Most were neglected, beaten, abused, and never felt loved or needed.

These guys need attention, support, and someone who cares about them. Without that, a man loses hope. And when they lose hope, there’s nothing left but darkness. So I care about them, and through God’s Word I show them He cares about them — and I teach them God’s rules of life and how He hopes for them to live. Many of them are now back with their families, and if they ever need help they know who to call. They don’t all make it, and that hurts. When one of my guys goes back to the streets, I’ll often go out looking for him. I think it’s important to show that you care enough to leave the other 99 sheep to search for that lost one.

I believe Union Rescue Mission is where God wants me. When I can help one guy break through the darkness and succeed, that’s what keeps me going. This is the kind of ministry Jesus did — and someone will have to drag me out kicking and screaming before I leave this place.

Sugar Bear Finds Home

Seems like everyone loves Sugar Bear. On Skid Row, gangsters and prostitutes trust him. While inside Union Rescue Mission, recovering addicts confide in him, the chaplains respect him, and all the children feel safe in his strong, playful arms. He’s a legend on these streets and everyone knows him — but for most of his life, he didn’t know himself.

“Inside, I was lost from the day I was born,” says Sugar Bear, whose given name is Robert. “If you’re lost in a city or something, you can eventually find your way. But it’s hard to be lost within yourself and identify where you are. Especially when you never had a beginning.”

Born to a mother struggling with severe mental illness in Long Beach, Sugar Bear ran away from home by the age of eight and never had anyone but the streets to teach him how to live. He’s slept on streets from Pasadena to Long Beach, and Skid Row to Hollywood, selling papers, shining shoes, dancing, cooking, picking pockets, burgling cars, selling dope, using dope, and running from police. He’s been shot in the back and shot in the chest, and he even spent several years on Death Row — a story he won’t talk about.

But sitting in prison, waiting to die, he started reading the Bible.

“I always prayed and told God that I was all by myself and didn’t have nobody else,” he says. “And God told me that no matter what I’ve done that was bad, everything was going to work out. Jesus had a plan and special purpose for my life. So when I got out of prison, I quit drugs and came to Union Rescue Mission to get my life right.”

When he got to Union Rescue Mission, Sugar Bear was a broken man. “I’d been crying inside my whole life,” he says. “Then God put me here, and I found a family I never had.”

Today, Sugar Bear is a full-time volunteer at the Mission. “This is my home. I’m just a crazy man, but everyone pays attention to me here, and it’s just beautiful,” he says, laughing. “Union Rescue Mission gave me love I never got anywhere else in my life.”

Don’t Miss the Miracle

I hope Sugar Bear’s story inspires you. It’s hard to imagine a human being growing up with less going for him. A traumatized little boy with a mentally ill mother, he learned the rules of life from the streets.

But today, Sugar Bear is one of the finest human beings I know — and one of my best friends. When he learns I’m going out on the streets of Skid Row at night, he joins me to make sure I’m okay. He protects the ladies living at Union Rescue Mission, the kids adore him, and every man here listens to him. He’s a big, courageous, loving teddy bear — and a walking miracle.

Union Rescue Mission is filled with walking miracles just like Sugar Bear. That’s because we offer hardened, hurting men and women more than “three hots and a cot.” We offer them love and friendship, point them to God, and teach them the truth — and the truth transforms them.

Every day, Sugar Bear reminds me that no matter how damaged someone’s life is, you can never give up on them. You might miss out on a miracle.

Blessings,

Andy Bales, CEO